If there were any doubt left in my mind about nofap, it all went out of the window on Nov 26th Tuesday, at around 9:30 pm... Please bear with me, I am still in shock at what happened that day (in a good way).
So, some of you may remember me. I was here quite a lot and I fretted and worried about my abilities, I gave advice to others, and I learned a lot from this board. But I want to ensure those that are confused, worried, or unsure. THIS WORKS! It is NOT easy and relapse WILL happen. But it works.
A little bit of background info first. 20 yr male uni student. Started fapping around the age of 13, could have been earlier though. Never had a problem getting girls, but did have PIED that inhibited me from having sex quite a lot. My badge says like 30 something days now but I've been doing it for about 2 months, I broke halfway through (blue balls made me do it).
I'm 27 years old and I spent upwards of a decade addicted to porn, and suffered from severe ED for six of those years. This time last year, I was wondering if I'd ever be able to have a healthy relationship with a woman. With the ED being such a recurring problem, I just didn't see how it could happen. This caused me to fall into depression, which only made matters worse.
After failing over and over again for as long as two years, I finally reached the 90 day milestone! My life has changed so much that I decided to reflect back on my teenage years to share how I was before porn, during and after. It will be a long read, but in my opinion my story should give hope.
I've been on the nofap journey for over a year now and this is my first time EVER reaching 90 days. I could go on and on about the differences like most 90 day reports but in truth I wouldn't know exactly what to say. Some of the differences are subtle. A not so subtle difference is "color".
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