Let me introduce myself. I'm a medical professional, 28 years old and I quit fapping in early January. I started out with a 7-day streak, relapsed once and am fap-free since then. I started fapping really early, long before puberty, and it became a habit. When I was 12 or 13, I found the first bits of porn and dad's stash of dirty magazines, as well as explicit stories.
Today is my 50th day in this final NoFap journey. I've had some high highs and some low lows, but on average, I feel a hell of a lot better then in the past years. I'm 20 years old and have fapped almost daily (1-3 times) since I was twelve.
I am 34, single. I been using PMO for 20 years multiple times a day I was shy approaching women. Lost virginity at 27 with prostitute. Before my libido was so high, I could be aroused with just looking at woman. Now, it is so low I get aroused only on porn.
If there is something to be learnt from the success stories on NoFap I think it is that sex as showed in the mass media is bullshit. The second thing to be learnt is that sex as a whole is like food, the more you use it, the less pleasure you will be feel out from it (so practice it, but not too often; don't be consumed by it).
PCES yields peculiar results measuring self-perceived effects of porn
This post addresses a psychometric tool (questionnaire) known as the Pornography Consumption Effect Scale (PCES). Several studies have employed it, the most well-known of which concluded that "Young Danish adults [18-30] believe that pornography has had primarily a positive effect on various aspects of their lives."
So I made it: 100 days :) Woooohooooo!!!! I am very proud of myself, even though I have had stumbles and almost falls.... This forum and challenge has definitly changed my life:) Not in some massive religious-like event, but slow incremental changes.
First post. I'm 29 days into no MO, 59 days no P. I almost relapsed tonight, but I decided to start a journal instead. I'm 28 years old, 29 soon. One of the bad cases -- I was at just the right age when I knew about computers since I was 9 years old and my parents did know anything about them till I was in college or so.
So I'm over 4 months into my reboot now, and it wasn't until recently that I began to try having sex. The first few times I wasn't very successful. I did get a few nice blow jobs, but I wasn't hard long enough for real sex. However, last weekend I ended up spending the weekend at my girlfriends house and had the best sex since almost 2 years ago. And ever since that my dick's been way more alert to things.
Internet addicts can suffer a form of cold turkey when they stop using the web - just like people coming off drugs, according to research. A study by Swansea and Milan universities found young people had "negative moods" when they stopped surfing the net.
1) My poor wife. I can't get enough of her! My wife would initiate sex and I would turn her down by making up some stupid excuse only to end up fapping later on. Since NoFap, the very thought of rolling in the sheets with her has me ready to go in seconds. This morning, she actually turned me down because she was worn out. It's usually not a good thing getting turned down for sex but, in this case, it's something to brag about.
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