So I'm a bit late on the 90 day mark, as this is the first time I've been back at my computer. I spent the bulk of the weekend in bed with my new girlfriend, and I don't mean that in a condescending or arrogant way, but in an encouraging way! I began NoFap about 5 months ago. My story is probably similar to most of you.
My background: started nofap in January of 2012. I did it because of ED issues which I realized were due to my long-term, excessive PMO. Basically, I could not get an erection unless I was staring at a computer screen in my hunched over fap posture. I started PMO when I was 11 and made it an almost daily habit for the next 12 years or so.
I just completed Day 90 and I feel incredible! I want to thank you all for your information and guidance. I want to share the positive impact [r/NoFap] has had on my present, as succinctly as I can. How I got here: I was dissatisfied with my erectile dysfunction that struck the majority of the blue-moon occasions which I have attempted to have sex in recent years.
Brothers and sisters, I am transmuting. To experience the true power of NoFap, use it is as a catalyst for complete transmutation. Since NoFap, not only have I stopped masturbating, but I have channeled my sexual energy into other tasks:
Hi everyone, my name is ____, 24, I'm Italian so first of all sorry for my imperfect English. My story so far: I started masturbating to porn when I was 15, around 4-5 orgasm a week but sometimes a lot more, but I never had problems with girls until 4 months ago. I am a very social person, handsome guy, a lot of experience with real girls, I always thought that my porn habit was harmless.
So, quick rundown, I'm 21 and I've been doing No Fap for about a year and a half. My main reason for starting was that despite my ability to get girls, I would have extreme difficulty orgasmic during sex or foreplay. Most girls wouldn't be able to make me orgasm at all until their fourth try normally. The first two girls I had sex with could not make me orgasm at all during our entire relationship, even though I found them to be very attractive.
High point: a week about 40 days in when I found myself going around school with the bravado to engage with almost every beautiful girl I saw. Knowing those "superhuman powers" for the first time and aspiring to them ever since.
Since my last relapse (11 day streak) I went a complete 50 days without Orgasm. I say Orgasm because every now and then I'd end up with my hand on my member and I'd just edge. I know, not supposed to happen but I wouldn't really think at the time. Anyway, that only happened about three or four times in the entire 50 days. Why did I start NoFap? I couldn't get it up for my girlfriend. I mean, with about 10 minutes of stimulation I might have gotten a semi but that was it. It wasn't that I wasn't sexually attracted to her, I was just not craving sex, I guess.
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