I can’t believe I’ve gone almost a year without fapping. I’ll be honest. I had a few peaks at porn and was close to relapsing but I just stopped myself and said “NO DO NOT DO IT!” and I turned it off and walked away from my computer.
I was so proud of myself for being able to control the urge and I feel like a better person because of it.
Btw my girlfriend and I moved in together 3.5 months ago and it’s been amazing. Our 1 year anniversary is coming up in October and I am going to propose to her.
REAL life and REAL sex and REAL intimacy is a million times better than playing with your dick while watching pixels on a computer.
I started to learn about masturbation a few years ago. I had couple of streaks, 30 days, 60 days, 90 days, etc… It was definitely very tough at first but I stuck with it. I experienced a huge flatline. I think it was for about 50 days. But then I was waking up with the most massive boners and I felt great.
About a year ago I decided to give another go because I had relapsed. Literally 5 days after I started I met a woman who’s now my girlfriend and we are living together. I told her that I do not masturbate and she actually doesn’t either.
I think the fact that I am in a relationship and the sex is so awesome it has been easier to not look at porn and masturbate. I say easier because I did peak a few times but I stopped myself.
I told her at the very beginning that I do not masturbate. She actually does not masturbate either.
The sex is great and we are very open about what we want and we are not afraid to experience. That’s the coolest thing.
I find, compared to prior relationships, I am a lot more confident and I feel like more of a man. It’s a great feeling
I used to view women not only as objects but also as being higher than me and putting them on a pedestal. Now I feel like a man and I am definitely the dominant one in the relationship, as it should be.
Keep it up everyone! I wish you all success
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