I’m currently on day 60 and it feels awesome! I just started school again and almost all the things that were troubling me until now are gone. If you want motivation to start or continue a streak, read on! Back story: 18, second year of college in France. Fapped daily from age 10. Was into hardcore porn. Virgin. Fantasized about classmates and friends. Unconfident.
Benefits:
- Confidence
- I speak more clearly (hint: talk slow and don’t talk often). This is related to increased confidence, not directly to abstinence.
- My fantasies are pretty much gone
How things improved since school started again:
- I got the nerve to speak to a very pretty first year and her very pretty friend. Her friend left and we spoke for about 5 minutes. Before, I would have been so paralysed by rejection that I would not have walked up to them.
- Girls around me start random conversations during class. (girls again, sorry)
- I’m getting back the rush I had during the first weeks of NoFap.
- Not directly related to NoFap either, but I give way less fucks about little things, especially other people’s opinions.
Remaining struggles:
- Still wouldn’t call myself a player, if you see what I mean. But I’m sure I’m gonna find a girlfriend soon 😉
- Terrified of having a wet dream while sleeping over at a friend’s house or something.
- Can’t stick to a workout routine
- Afraid of not lasting long during my first time if I’m on NoFap.
A huge thanks to the community, and good luck to you all, it does work
TL;DR: I’m currently on day 60, it’s good
LINK – Day 60 – Report
by _blank2