Went to pick of some food at this pub and I realized how judgmental I am towards women. I always complain how no girl likes me and blah blah blah. Well I looked at this girl who was checking me out (as in payment transaction at the register not the other way lol) and thought well, she isn’t ugly, but she isn’t stunning either. Would I ever be attracted to that? Hell fucking no.
So I started thinking what makes her unattractive? Her face wasn’t perfectly symmetrical (I mean it was just the most minor things you can possibly pick up on and bitch about), her arms were slightly skinnier than I would have liked, her teeth not perfect but not bad either, and so on.
And the sad thing is she isn’t ugly or unattractive at all I just compared her to my ideal “porn / movie star woman”. No one can live up to a standard like that. I’m not perfect so why should I expect her to be you know?
Who cares if her arms are slightly skinnier than the “ideal” woman. She is her own person. This girl was actually really pretty once I broke down the reasons why she wasn’t “perfect” and accepted that she is just like me, a normal person with a unique body.
I always wondered how couples could possibly see beauty in one another. I would look a guys woman and go there is no fucking way he is tapping that, too skinny, too big, too whatever the delusion, and so on. I blame girls for never being attracted to me but all this time I have never been attracted to them?
LINK – Never realized how bad porn distorted my view of women
By KnightOfR2
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