*Summary of my 75-Day NoFap results* [THIS STUFF WORKS GUYS! There is another life waiting for you!]
Be aware that I was not part of a nofap community so far. I am not making things up or copy the results of others.
I love life a lot more. Especially people
People like me more, its very obvious. Strong self-reinforcing properties with #1
More Attraction. Women became more touchy-feely towards me.
Confidence! I speak up without caring or overthinking stuff
I can appreciate female beauty for what it is. No instant sexualization
Social anxiety (mild-moderate) is gone. What a relieve guys
People ask me if I grew taller on a regular basis lol (physically, I did not, obviously)
People seem to be genuinely happy to interact with me
Better self-control. I started taking cold showers just like that, where I was behaving like a pussy before
Stronger in the Gym (noteworthy, since I am a long-time gymrat already)
Better focus in class and at work
Stronger emotions, positive and negative. I also pick up on people’s moods easier
I smile and laugh more often
I like how I look in the mirror. Considered myself unattractive before that
I started to turn my life around and plan for the future! Thank God for that man
Aquired, “unnatural” fetishes and sexual obsessions are slowly disappearing. Things I always genuinely liked are staying, though
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I intend to stay in hardmode for a while, at least another 2 months. No plans for re-introducing fapping. Some difficulties I discovered:
– Still urges on a irregular basis. I take them for what they are, very controllable
– Feels like quitting a drug, literally, first month was bad
– Sometimes I miss the good old pervert times
– Bad flatline around week 2-4. depression, tired, zero motivation
– rarely, my balls hurt
-/+ increased sensitivity towards drugs like coffee or alcohol. Even small amounts rock my world now
*Real quick bio part*
: 29 year old, ex- chronic masturbator here. Fapping with porn since shooting blanks, maybe age 10. It got really bad over the years, talking
shemale/BDSM/Gay-porn,
strong objectification of women,
strong self- sexualization,
shame,
social anxiety,
new fetishes that would make me barf in real life,
obsession, fun = sex
fapping being better than actual sex in a long-time relationship,
all the good stuff.
The last time I had sex was mid- August. After that, I had a couple last fapping sessions and realized I wanted to change this aspect of my life forever.
Keep it up guys!
LINK – 75 Days – totally worth it