It only took less than 6 months since I start my reboot. Nov 23, 2012, and today is May 15 2013. I have been having successful sex encounter few weeks now, first encounter was on Apr 27 2013, and only had minor PE, then, after that, I don’t think I even had PE. ED is pass tense. I have rock hard Libido, and 2-3 times a day. I know I should preserve myself a bit. But, I don’t think this matter that much.
It’s actually not as hard as most of us think about.
My tips are:
- Find right person. You need to find a girl you comfortable with, this is very important at the beginning. Being relaxed is the key.
- Do not use any drugs. Many of you may think drug can help, the answer is yes, and it helps – but also throw you into a deeper issue. And you know what I am talking about.
- Don’t look down to yourself, I have been relapsed few times since the beginning, but it won’t deduct your effort that much, at least not as much as you think. Being confident is another key.
That’s all I can think about my reboot, and I hope every one of you can heal like me. Believe me, you can do it, and I made it happen, it works, if any questions, please don’t hesitate, ask me, I will do my best to help people who in need.
by lustring
Link to journal – Please assess my reboot, thanks.
April 15, 2013
33yrs, none partner in life. had sex occasionally ( few times a year ) , fail, fail, fail, finally know it’s pied.
Reboot started on Nov 23 2013,
49days—MO, then went another 27 days—MO, then another 16 days–MO, then another 14days—MO, now is on the latest reboot, so far is 34 days. I am setting a goal ( 180 days), because I am having a girlfriend now, planning this September is the period of having sex with her, I didn’t tell her anything about my reboot. The good thing is – I have never P(ed) since or even few weeks before my first reboot, only MO(ed), but unintentionally watched nude scenes but nothing near binge level.
My question is, would I be in time to save myself when time comes (September this year). What do you think my reboot.