My ED is completely gone thanks to no fapping
For those of you who track this kind of stuff or are suffering from some kind of ED, there is hope. Due to excessive fapping to porn and getting used to my right hand, I was never able to ejaculate during intercourse and would eventually lose the erection. However after around 50 days of no fapping I was able to ejaculate during penetration on two out of two occasions.
My penis erection was super strong like back when I was 19 years old. I have truly felt born again during this no fap run, and now the proof has expressed itself in the joy of intercourse and actually being a normal dude who ejaculates in a vagina.
There is NO way I can go back to fapping now that I have my masculinity and passion back.
Just want to confirm what we’ve read on YourBrainonPorn: fapping to porn can create ED, and going cold turkey for a while can indeed reset your body to its natural state.
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Apparently was addicted to transsexual porn (6 months ago)
Yes, I am str8 and was/am addicted to ladyboys. But shemale porn is a gateway to more gay porn and unfortunately gay guys are more than willing to lend a helping hand more than women in real life. Same with paid shemale escorts. This is something you probably don’t want to be doing due to the intense feelings of guilt.
Described some of his history (6 months ago)
Have been hooked on porn since 1985 (magazines) but went into high gear with the internet revolution in the 1990s and it had completely spiraled out of control in 2001. It was then where I finally wanted to experience what I was seeing. Wound up doing things that I am embarrassed of (escorts, random craigslist hookups, massage parlors, cheating, gay experimenting, etc.).
Internet porn is a gateway drug. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. I decided to change my life- no porn, no fap, no Facebook, no looking for hot pics, and NO acting out.
More history (6 months ago)
Hi friend, I am an older guy here compared to other posters. I have also had bouts with depression and boredom, but thanks to the new education from YourBrainonPorn, Innergold (check them out on YouTube), and other no fap sites I feel better equipped now more than ever. For example, I just saw a photo of my sister-in-law in my house, and had an urge for 1 second (I used to fap to her pics on facebook), but I squashed it getting my dumbbell set, watching CNN, and coming to this site.
The hookers are worse than porn because they are just as addicting without any good benefits in the long term. There is a chance for STDs, police stings, and other issues there.
Stop the boredom by keeping your rational brain active. Talk to people about other things over the phone, volunteer, watch TV/documentaries, write, try to learn a language, try to learn a computer skill, write a book or blog, read books, exercise, cook, or go out for walks.
Ask yourself before you fantasize: “what is the benefit of ruining my brain and making it harder to quit?”
If you have money, innergold has an intervention program via Skype and email list. They also have cheaper alternatives like a manual. But you can watch a bunch of their vids for free on their Youtube channel and their website has 10 Commandments to follow and stuff.
Also try the Rebooting Basics on YourBrainonPorn.com.
More story and advice (5 months ago)
I was diagnosed as a bi-polar in 1997 and had to take meds for years. Yes hypersexuality is an issue. Eventually I was phased off the meds and made a huge improvement, so much that a doctor in 2005 said I was misdiagnosed. I haven’t taken any meds since then and am a productive and responsible citizen.
My only issue is fapping witch leads to sex addiction and acting out. However each day is a new day, which brings hope. It is not productive to think about the sins I committed in a manic or depressive state because they are so out of character.
You may not realize it right now, but the WORSE thing you can do is to label yourself as being bi-polar and hypersexual because it will subconsciously “allow’ you to continue to fap 3-5 times a day as your id will convince you that it’s the only way to bring relief to your physical desires or to “wind down” and get the “stress out”.
Turns out the truth is fapping to porn 3-5 just makes the desire even MORE and the craving will NOT be satisfied.
To avoid rambling, let me be clear: YES, YOU HAVE FREE WILL TO STOP. YES, IF YOU FOLLOW THE “STEPS” AND HAVE CONFIDENCE AND A BELIEF IN YOURSELF YOU CAN STOP. CONTINUE TO EDUCATE YOURSELF AND WATCH NOFAP VIDEOS.
As someone who has fapped 3-5 times daily, I can appreciate what an accomplishment it is for me to be on my 10th day of no fapping right now! I started a few months ago and cycled back a few times, but I actually had 17 days in a row at one point, which seemed impossible for me and my streaming porn.
The fact that I have been clean for 9 days in a row right now is truly something that is wonderful for me, although “normal dudes” may not see it as much- I don’t care. And you can do it as well. But you must take back control of your choices.
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