I cannot believe I have done this. I am 37 and I really thought I was never going to be able to stop masturbating and out of the blue I found No Fap.
This site is so awesome.
There is a very steady regular energy in my body now which is pleasure, contentment, ease and confidence.
I don’t feel the need for a hit cause I have the happiness within. I don’t need a 6 second hit. I have a deep warmth inside of me which does not need intense pleasure.
Porn and masturbation affected my marriage deeply. PMO also reinforced my neediness before and after my marriage.
All that is now gone.
I do not need a girlfriend or a wife.
I am free, free to choose.
I am happy and I love myself.
What I want to say is:
Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you, a million times and more, to No Fap and everyone who posts here.
LINK – 90 Days Hard Mode Complete!
by DannyCool
There are so many benefits to this it is unbelievable. No girl or women is better than me or worse than me anymore. I appreciate all people whether beautiful or ugly as they are just concepts. Everyone is the same as me they all want to be happy and free from suffering like me. I love myself and I love them just as much. This is all happening easily because of No Fap.
When I was on holidays recently there was an absolutely beautiful looking girl there who was being friendly to me. (probably because of the super powers ;)) I was able to chase after her and feel good. I was able to ignore her because of being busy with other things and feel good. I was able to be super close with her and feel good and not miss her that much at all when she was gone. There was also an incredible girl who was chatting me up at the party. She was so wise and had these incredible eyes. She was everything I look for in a women. She was spontaneous and alive and I was very attracted to her. I knew she wanted me but I knew deep down that it was not the best for both of us and I was able to say No! I can actually choose myself and my dopamine seeking mind is not in control of me anymore. I was so happy to be able to say No! I kept my hardmode streak and I did not miss her at all when I went home. 🙂 🙂 🙂 This shows that I have found the love in myself.
The advantages of finding love in myself and not needing is incredible. Everyday I am happy and content. I am not looking outside of myself for something to fill the void. Every simple thing is enjoyable. There is a happiness deep within ourselves that can be unlocked through No Fap. Every cell in my body has a smiley face on it.
My only tip is to work on anger issues. If you see how much anger is hurts is easy to leave go of desire and find the love within.
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