Had a great sex life for more than 3 years, no sex for 8 months, masturbating 1-2 times per day for that 8 months, then couldn’t get it up with a hot girl. I’m perfectly fit, don’t smoke don’t drink, and got checked by number of urologists and they all say it’s fuckin* depression, which it’s not.
Although it’s been more than 8 months since I last masturbated or watched porn, for the past 93 days I was hard mode. In the period in between I would have some sex or bj with my gf but the erection quality was mostly poor. Today I O’d for the first time after 93 days with bj.
15 Minutes after the orgasm I was getting a solid erection which was just as it used to be in the past before my ED. I didn’t want to orgasm again though, as I thought 2 orgasms after 93 days of abstinence may be too much? 5-6 Hours passed, I met the same girl again this night I got only a mild erection with semen leakage (Honestly I was expecting more.
For the past 3 months I’ve been exercising every day, having extremely cold showers afterwards, and eating nutty food rich in vitamin E (I’m not exaggerating).
I get morning wood sometimes, not very hard though, but before my reboot there was none.
All I can say is that there is light at the end of the tunnel, but it’s a god damn long tunnel. DONT QUIT.
I wonder how will today’s orgasm affect my progress..
LINK – 93 days no PMO report
BY – Irvin
7 MONTHS EARLIER – 21 y/o inconsistent flatline?
History:
1. Great sex life 16-19 age of life, short refractory period, no problems with erections at all. (frequency: 3 times per week, multiple times)
2. 9 months of drought, no sex at all, masturbating too often, 1-3 times a day, approximately 60%PMO 40%MO.
3. Couldnt maintain an erection with a very attractive girl Im now with. Checked by 2 docs, both said it’s psychological probably due to stress or depression (which I know is bullsh**)
Reboot:
1. It’s day 29 of it, hard mode, no O at all. No cravings for porn.
2. Spending time with gf, cuddling kissing, avoiding orgasm.
3. Flatlines last 3-4 days, then while cuddling I will get an erection, lose it quickly end get semen leakage in the end. The following days I will get morning wood (sth I hadnt got since forever before the reboot), and then flatline again for 3-4 days.
I read everywhere that flatline lasts 30-60 days at least and that spending time with a gf only speeds up the process of rewiring. Is this inconsistency of the flatline a good or a bad sign? I know that progress is not linear and the next day doesnt have to be better than the previous one, but It just sucks not to see any progress.
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