While I’ve had sex this summer under the influence of alcohol, I could not reach orgasm, probably due to the numbing caused by both fapping and alcohol.
Although my PMO-usage was very controlled throughout summer (2 sessions a week approx), I’ve come to the conclusion that it actually had a big effect on the not-so-great sexual experiences. When in the midst of the acts I can clearly remembering that I had to fantasize to maintain a rather weak erection… Dissapointing! Of course, being under alcoholic influence and the incidents being one-night-stands contributed negatively.
Fast forward a couple months and I’m in the complete opposite end. I’ve being rigorously true to NoFap for nearly 28 days, and have also learned to basically shut down the mind or divert whenever a fantasy arises. With no orgasms getting through in nearly a month, the slightest physical contact with this girl I met could potentially lead to a raging boner. If you’ve read my previous post, then you also know that I jizzed in my pants just by making out with her, feeling the pressure of her body on top of me in bed. In this case I was sober, and had no fantasies at all; just enjoying the moment.
After this I was a bit worried that I had become to sensitive. Luckily, the day after I got to do a full-out test in regards to this. And I can only say: Success over all expectations!! We went to bed together and had great sex trying different things, taking it slow, enjoyin the moment… No fantasies of porn, and no PE. All the time I managed to keep this raging boner, and I felt in control over my body. It was simply amazing and I have never experienced anything like it! In the end I erupted like a freaking volcano, followed by snuggling and me spending the night. I guess my brain is successfully rewiring itself.
I did contemplate fapping to numb my sensitivity just a tad, but I know perfectly well where that road ends; bringing fantasies back as an interfering factor. I am just glad I refrained, and I basically just want to thank you — the NF community — for being such an supportive, friendly and encouraging community!!
A couple days back I made a post about being sexually physical with a girl, for the first time while sober and also while doing NoFap.
I am 22 and started with P at age 13-14 I think.
LINK – From PIED to PE to perfect sex: A NoFap success story (minor triggers)
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