I wanted to share this story and a few tips for the young fellas suffering from PIED. I’m only 18 and I’m so happy that I had the chance to discover NoFap. Cause to be honest, this changed my life in so many ways.. Not only self-esteem, confidence etc. But let’s keep this short and let’s get to the background 🙂
[BACKGROUND-WHY I JOINED NOFAP]
So I was really addicted to porn, because every time I got home from school or work, I was sitting in front of my PC and jerked off to some dudes fucking model-looking-like girls. I never knew something about PIED and stuff, and that porn can harm you in a psychological way. In April 15 I was at my ex’s place and watched a movie like a normal couple. I was a virgin and really didn’t expect it to happen. But it happened, but not in the way like I wanted to. It was really hard for me to even get a half boner and I tried to force my dick to get hard. But it was only 5 out of 10 and that sucked! You know why? I wasn’t really able to penetrate and tbh I couldn’t last a minute lol. I wasn’t nervous or anxious that I’ll fail, but my dick didn’t want to get hard so I really failed at my first time. I came in her but it always “slipped” out, cause it wasn’t that hard. So 2 weeks after my first time, she said goodbye and broke up. Never been like this disappointed and frustrated ever! So I started to Google around why an 18 Year old boy is suffering from ED. I found a forum where they had a link to YBOP and after reading tons of stuff about PIED, i decided to join this wonderful subreddit with really supportive guys and thanks for that BTW! Y’all motivated me to quit porn and masturbation for good. I wanted to have my erection back, and I haven’t had a random boner in 2 years but that changed! I was only able to get hard by watching porn, so idk.. Brain fog, and low self-esteem was one of my biggest issues!
My Journey sofar!
So just like everyone else i started at day 1 and my first streak was 18! I was proud of myself and so many people motivated me not to give up. But i couldn’t resist the urges and fapped.. but not to porn.. to a gif lol.. Didn’t want to start over but I had to so another round of trying to resist the urges.. my 2nd streak was 2 days lol and then 4, 8,2,4 and after awhile i deleted my snapchat plus ignored the tumblr app, because all the contents on these apps are always sexual. Tbh my tumblr was full with sexual content but psch! I ignored it for a while and i dated this girl she was so beautiful and i didn’t want tell her that I’m not able to give her a good dick lol, so i really stopped fapping on October 23rd because of her.. That was the day when I were at her place, but we didn’t end up fucking which was good! Cause i wouldn’t be able to get my dick up anyway. But somehow .. I lost her too and i was like fuck this. I didn’t relapse, this shit made me stronger lol. Most of the guys here on this subreddit told me that girls are more attracted to you when you stop fapping and watching porn. I really wanted to have a girlfriend and be able to get my dick up while having sex, so I continued my streak. I was really horny at day 22, but i took a cold shower so it was no problem. At Day 40 the flatline started and I was like ” fuck is wrong w/ me.. ” The flatline was the HELL, but my muscle growth kinda motivated me, so lifting weights was on my schedule every week lol. Supplements like zinc and fish oil were a huge part of my recovery and meditation was so refreshing tbh. At day 70 I started to read the book about Law Of Attraction (Money) and it motivated me to really do something for my dreams. But one of the most important things someone ever taught me, was something Kendrick Lamar once said: ” How can I have love for my partner next to me, or my city… if I don’t have love for myself? And this is when I started to accept the person I am, and that i need to love myself first, to be a happy for like forever! Around Day 115, my sex-drive came back and I was like wtf! But I was happy as fuck. I can now get a boner by only thinking about something but please guys don’t do this lol, it can lead to relapse and I was close to relapse! I have had blue balls 2 times in the last 3 days and dude they hurt like hell! But shit I’m horny again and that makes me happy, i can get random boners again and it feels like they trying to break out my underwear of something LOL. The only thing i need to look forward to now is “having sex”. If everything goes its way, it’ll be dope and would make me the happiest man alive!
What i did during my streak
- Working out … a lot!
- drinking at least 2 liter water a day
- jogging for 3 hours straight! (17,5 miles/ 27km)
- getting up early!
- learning Spanish and reading a book
- doing the things i love! – This is so important –
- quit smoking, drinking alcohol etc.
- taking supplements like magnesium, zinc, Vitamin C, fish oil etc.
- Kept my circle small and avoided stress and beef with friends
- sleeping early
- meditate
- Cold Showers
- tried to think positive
As you can see .. all you need for a PIED cure is patience! Patience is key!! And if you really want to be rock hard down there, then tell yourself that fapping is not an option. It won’t fix anything. Only Patience can and will. 90 Days will make a difference but when you have 90+ Days you can see the benefits of NoFap everyone’s talking about. You can get hard by only thinking, you get morning woods like regularly, you are no longer depressed, you feel confident, you start to appreciate and love yourself. And the girls really will be attracted to you. Btw I’m only 18 but my beard growth is ridiculous! Thanks to my high testosterone level lol! I hope this motivated some of you guys to keep going and not to stop/ look back. Fapping is not an option and you just make everything worse with it. Stick to the plan and do it for yourself. Thanks for reading. And Thanks to everyone on this subreddit!
Looking forward to have sex now. IM READY!
(why would i waste my energy on a negative thought, when i’m able to think about positive stuff?)
LINK – 18 Years old, Day 122, so close to fix PIED!
by Yessir416
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