I came for the first time without using porn or any visual/audible stimulus, just from my imagination and focusing really hard on my pleasure. For background information, I’m an 18 year old female. I’ve been watching porn since late middle school/early high school or so. While I wouldn’t say I had/have a porn addiction, I desensitized myself to the point that I couldn’t cum without the visual stimulus.
It’s also a bit difficult for me to get aroused in the first place so I’d use porn to aid me in that. This wasn’t a real issue to me until I started having sex and realized that I couldn’t cum or get very aroused because of the neural connections associated with cumming and porn.
So I decided to abstain from all porn this month.
I masturbated with no avail for the first few days. There was just no pleasure. However, as the days went by it progressively got easier to feel the pleasure. Eventually I managed to cum. I’m really excited about this! The more I rewire my brain like this, the more I think I’ll enjoy sex. I’m surprised it took only about 16 days, I thought it’d take longer but I’m not complaining.
So yaaaaaay! Hopefully this can bring some hope to any female users of r/pornfree that may have had a similar problem 🙂
LINK – Came without porn
by honeymelon_
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