Delayed ejaculation was problem from the start in my sex life. Last 10 years I have sex with females, I was never able to come ‘inside’, while mostly never felt enough stimuli.
Sometimes I would be able with blow job, but after some time that were not enough stimuli as well. Anyway, I started noFap for some time on/off but this time I also got together with another super cool girl who also have some sexual dysfunction so we where there together.
Anyway after trying for a month or so, I’ve read in the book we should start massaging each other in lower part of the body, just a normal massage so we can get comfortable with touching around there with no expectation at all. With no fap/no porn (I had 2 relapse so to speak, even though I didn’t call them like that, and penetrative sex with her). Both of those alone time I did it rather slow and touching very gently, as I was doing it with iron first (grip) before.
After a few those treatment First I started cumming when she giving me head, and 2 days ago I cummed ‘inside’, it was freaking the happiest feeling ever, combination of accomplishment/euphoria/happiness all at once. I started cumming inside and kind of pushed her so I don’t cum inside :), I was thinking “fuck this, I don’t wanna be dad”.
Couple weeks ago I was searching for result of people having delayed ejaculation problems, and was unable to find it and now I’m writing this post with real hand results. It’s certainly possible, you just need to try different things. For me it was combination, noFap, frequent lower body massage with no expectation (we had no sex), and cool girl to speak and share my trouble with.
LINK – Delayed ejaculation problem: First time in life I came while having penetrative sex in vagine
by StoneColdJane