23 years old. Failed with five other women, and felt hopeless. After 17 days, I had sex, and was able to get hard on the second attempt. I also think a big part of it is that I’ve never felt as comfortable with a women like I do with my now girlfriend…
I just relapsed, because I’ve basically had a constant erection the past two days at school. I didn’t masturbate to a lot of women like I used to, or their body parts. Instead, I WAS IN COMPLETE CONTROL OF MY MIND, and recalled a sexual experience with my now girlfriend (mainly the look on her face).
She lives about 3 hours away (we’re from the same hometown, but go to different colleges), so it’s kind of planned that sometimes we will only see each other every other weekend. If so, I will probably masturbate once a week (on the weeks we don’t have sex), so that I’m not as built up, and also so I can don’t finish with her in 2 minutes (like I did the first time. Actually surprised I didn’t have DE).
I do feel like I have rebooted myself, and sex hasn’t been a problem at all with her after that first time. So, does this sound like a decent idea? Of course no porn, and minimal fantasy when I do masturbate. I just can’t find much about what to do after you do reboot. (also, I had gone 94 days before this too a while back. The self discipline in not going back to PMO isn’t too hard for me). Thanks for any advice.
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