I had to register as I’ve been lurking this place for few months, and such posts were something that validated this “cure”. My short story short :
- Started PMO at 13~ thank you Kazaa…
- Could not connect with women, as they would always be so different, they could not compare to girls I was attracted to on my screen.
- At 20 had first and worst experience with a girl whom I knew for over 6 years, as I had performance anxiety, it went down as soon as I had to penetrate. She asked if maybe I was gay…
- All the time I was PMO maybe once or twice a day, did not go into real hardcore, but I watched some stuff that I regretted seeing after I was done.
Now 25, 2 months ago I met a girl, and same thing happened, PA was in control again. Then I found you guys thx google <3
As soon as I understood what could be causing this, porn had to go, MO too unless with a woman. Those were my rules.
About 60 days passed, and I had sex with O and condom, I’m not sure if I want to go into details. But over that time, she did not BJ or HJ me. So basically I had no O, until today (people who found how to solve this out, thank you. Thank you so much…).
I did not have any cravings for porn, however my mood increased for sure. But I have to attribute some of this good mood to the girl I was spending time with.
My small advice to you guys in the community:
Who I am to criticize, but I’ve never understood why do some of you set up these goals, counters?
It’s not a sport. This shit has to go forever, not 120 days, not 360, but for life. You set these goals, and wait for them to end.
What are these days on your counters? Why do they have an ending, I would understand if you had counters since you stopped porn, but why do you cap yourselves with end goals?
Best luck to all of you!
LINK – My first and last message to you
By notimportant