After three trials of regular no fetish no frills sex, I finally had sex with no dysfunction and without imagining any other fantasies while having sex.
The first trial was a little confusing, I wasn’t much into the girl but wanted to see how far I was. I would get hard while kissing but everything would go limp as soon as clothes were off and things got real. That disappointed me like hell. So I kept going.
Next, I met someone I liked mch more and kissing would give me unimaginable hardons. I thought that was it, but clothes off, and it was gone again. Frustration to the core. I even got wet dreams following the making out. That was devastating and I kind of knew that my fantasies were still in my sub conscious.
Fast forward this week, I met a woman I liked much much more and we went home a couple nights in a row. I was scared to start anything that might end up the same, so went for stuff without any penetration. But I realized that I held it up pretty well…. So finally took a dive.
It wasn’t the roughest longest sex you can imagine, and I came very quickly. But the fact is I did not need any fantasies or imagination to keep it up. I felt it in my body and it was so good that I came very quickly. I am not sad about not lasting long, but very happy about not needing anything else but the partner to do it.
It feels great, guys! Keep it up. Don’t relapse, keep the fight going. There is light at the end of the tunnel. A new beginning…
my counter here is a little more than what I consider to be my real streak. I had a few ups and downs in the middle.
LINK – Update after close to 6 months of nofap. No PID finally.
by tradlad
7 months ago – Getting attracted to v**ina for the first time in my life!
There, I said it. I am 26 and I was so deep deep into those weird fetishes since a long time that I could never see a v*gina as something attractive. Couldn’t get myself to lick those ever, not even touch, unless I was too drunk or something. Naturally, I never had good sex, or get turned on with just plain vanilla things. Imagine how my partner would have felt when getting intimate.
Fast forward now. I saw a picture of v–gina somehow, and just found it so beautiful and attractive. I couldn’t keep myself from looking up more pictures. I can’t still believe that happened, and SO f*cking happy right now.
Wow, those little things are beautiful! Just beautiful! Where had I been all these years? tears of happiness
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