As stated above, six months since I fapped (Did peak at gifs 1-2 months in at one point of time, so if you count that as replase I guess I’m 4-5 months in). First of all, are the benefits real? (What most of you guys probably wanna know, I get it, the benefits stories are like fuel for our mission here, so I’m happy to tell you that yes, the benefits are real.
6 months ago I was just done fapping to another meaningless scene of porn, probably cleaning, just getting ready to get post-fap depressed (emptiness u feel after fapping), the usual fapping routine (we all know it, lol).
Then I hopped onto nofap, and things started to change, It only took a month for me to cut off unhealthy friendships, for me to show some true color, some true emotion to the people around me, and fact is you will lose friends on the road to finding urself (these friends are friends that suit well with the old you, not the new you, see it as a good thing). 2-3 months in I actually got a fukcing job, I had searched for months for a solid job, and I got one of the best jobs possible for someone in my position, good fucking pay, work on weekends, a lot of hot girls at work, perfect for someone like me who’s studying, literally a dream come true.
Then with time my grades started jumping, and 5 months into this course, I do not kid you I have the highest grade possible in atleast 80% of the stuff we’ve worked with, straight A’s in most things, and it is important to realize it is indeed not nofap that made me smarter or better at studying, nofap only gave me the tools to control those factors, and I took the steeringwheel and made myself proud.
How about girls then? Well to be honest guys no I do not have a girlfriend, and I’m gonna be honest again when I say it does suck. But I know that it is something I shouldn’t be sad about, but when you don’t fap for 6 months the longing for girls really is unavoidable. Though a lot of girls do look at me, and they do notice me, but really I think the problem lays in that I sort of see through majority of the girls, nofap made me realize all these hoes really are useless in the longrun, I’m looking for someone smart, funny, intriguing, someone with character. Perhaps that is why I’m left alone…
Life is so much fucking better, I’m actually proud of myself, and every day, every fucking day, I improve myself, in one way or another, it is not even a choice, when you have this much energy, and when you can’t get hapiness from watching porn and fapping, you firstly need to spend the energy somehow (constant improving in all areas) and 2nd you need to get happiness out of something (improving urself, making urself proud).
If you are in doubt of nofap, just please put ur trust in me when I tell you it it will be worth it, maybe not tomorrow, maybe not next week, but one day your gonna wake up and think: “I’m a fucking monster, and I love that monster for getting me this far”.
Long text, and I kind of realize no1’s gonna read all this, but regardless it was fun to reflect upon my story myself, and if you are crazy enough to read it all, please post a comment if u have any sort of question.
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I actually would say I very rarely get extremely horny, the first month of NoFap was way worse in that regard, I couldn’t go to school without popping boners in class, nowadays I only get that sort of “energetic horniness” when I see some girl, that’s just so fucking beautiful/attractive/hot that I cannot look away, how do I cope with that sort of feeling? (though it doesn’t linger for me personally very long, when I do get it, I am able to control it after a few minutes), I would say what everyone else says, use that energy instead of trying to surpress it, turn ur computer off and go do something productive, doesnt have to be running for president, clean your room, it doesnt matter as long as ur busy doing something.
Do I talk to girls? Do I have friendship with girls?:
I do talk to girls very regulary since I go to school and all, also talking to girls never was my problem, my problem always has been flirting with girls, I do also have one or two girl acquaintances from work (girls I respect).
Im 18
When did I become “disillusioned” by girls? And when did I start to instead recognize them as humans?
I started fapping sort of early, at 12-13 I’m pretty sure (I actually cannot remember very well, I have a hard time remembering a lot of stuff from my “childhood/teenhood”) and I guess I gradually just got the “disillusioned” impression of girls set into stone in my head, but hey I’m also not sure it has everything to do with NoFap either, the world itself is so shallow and sex-crazy so perhaps that’s whats affected us all too. When did this turn around? This sort of thing doesnt happen overnight man (sounds like your on the other side still so gna try give u some words of encouragement), u look at girls everyday, and for everyday u notice something u didnt notice before, one day u think “that girl is extremely interesting” (does not happen often though) and u sort of get lost in their character, you get attracted to THEM, not their faked looks, their maked up face, you see something more important and more real, you see THEM. And I realized since it happened to me (a girl at work, one of the friends I was talking about, really she is fucking amazing, hope u get to see a girl like that, and hope ur able to recognize it too), I realized that the girl I will marry, will be a girl I love, for her. And you know what? I cannot wait to meet that girl, so fuck these tinder swiping girls with 10kg makeup on, they dont just hide their faces, they hide their flaws, they hide their personalities, they hide themselves, they hide whats most precious of all really.. such a shame.
Do I have hobbies?
Ive always done some sort of sport so no I did not pick up anything just after starting to do nofap, though results did come faster in the gym (I do muay thai and gym, i recommend both if ur really to try something, muay thai especially does wonders to both ur body and mind).
Idk what it is today but I seem to drift away while writing, hope ur able to understand my message though since really that’s all that’s important here, and I do hope u do something good with that message.
LINK – 6 months in, sharing experience
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