I was a horrible fetish porn addict. I never exercised. I was a chicken shit. I had serious PIED. School lagged behind. My apartment was a neckbeard’s lair. I somehow weasled my way into two shitty, desperate relationships through friends. Never had the guts to talk to the ones I really liked.
I’m 25 right now, and I think I started at 14 or so. Went to daily use (and the gross stuff) pretty much during the first couple years.
About a year ago, I learned about NoFap. Enter exercise, cold showers and lots, LOTS of relapses. But the idea was stuck, and there was no going back anymore. I simply couldn’t view things the way I used to anymore.
Two weeks ago, I met this wonderful woman. Four days ago, party. We were by ourselves. Guess what? I somehow FINALLY had the courage to take a chance and say it like it is. It was surreal. I’ve never felt more alive. We’re dating now.
NoFap is real. It really helps you gain strength and courage. Don’t believe your inner doubts, they’re only there to lure you back into your old habits. I think the biggest benefit is the fact that you’ll no longer fear discomfort. You’ll eventually rise above it.
To anyone still dreaming, just DON’T GIVE UP! Ok? I was you not long ago. Dreaming, suffering, trying, failing, trying again. Keep on fighting. No one says it’s easy, but with enough tries and failures and a bit of luck, it can be done!
LINK – Seriously, thank you, NoFap!