I’m 29, and there have been some amazing changes since my journey of rebooting. Here’s a are several good symptoms that have resulted from No porn or masturbation.
1. Sex with my wife is better than it has ever been in 8 years of marriage. To explain; I used to do exactly what turned me on with Viewing porn. Many things I liked to watch my wife would NOT agree to participate in. Such things as, anal sex, facials, aggressive speech, or the misconception that she should do anything I wanted her to as what in portrayed in porn. I now longer have that mentality during sex, nor do I have it when not intimate.
2. Orgasm are much more intense than when I was regularly viewing porn. When I was active with porn use, ejaculating inside her was not interesting and gave me very little arousal, despite having no issues maintaining an erection. I ONLY wanted to ejaculate on her. This of course is a result of what I was conditioned to enjoy with years of porn use. Presently, I enjoy ejaculating inside my wife, rather than on her body, This is inately satisfying.
3. My sleep quality has increased a huge amount. Also, It seems as if my circadian rhythm has been reset. I wake up earlier, and more refreshed. During my porn use, I would go to bed early before my wife and secretly view porn before she came to bed. Sometimes, I would wake up before my wife, watch porn and masterbate before I left for work.
4. I am more interested in showing acts of love without having sex. Such as, holding hands, cuddling, tender kissing, and verbal compliments. Prior, if my wife attempted to cuddle with me I would feel I was compelled to have sex by a force that was out of my control.
5. I used to think my wife was Inadequate to provide the amount of sex I needed one. Daily basis. I would want sex so often my wife would get concerned. After no porn, my sex drive is still high but it’s more reasonable. Also, because I’m not acting out what I like in porn, my wife is not as sore in her genitalia. During sex I would only be aggressive and of course this can hurt a woman.
6. Depression, anxiety, social abstinence, has all reversed. I even have notice my concentration has improved, memory has improved, and small things are more enjoyable. Such as waking up early to take a walk before my day starts, giving thanks more often, pleasure from nature and even food.
Don’t give up guys you can do it. An app called ” Brain Buddy” on iPhone is a tracker and gives daily motivation and accountability. It has helped me tremendously in addition to self education.
LINK – 80 days Clean with No PMO
BY – Mantis360