Just want to talk about some of the benefits I’ve not seen discussed. I’ve been nofap on and off for a while but I’ve really gotten into since I’ve started seeing this very attractive girl who I really really like. I want to enjoy intimacy with her and have found nofap helps a ton. So here are some of the benefits…
1) Deeper orgasm – Holding back for so long leaves you horny, yes, but when you do get a chance to share that with someone you are far more sensitive to the whole process of love making. I feel like I am attentive to her every move. If she cares about you she will get off on how much of a good time you are having and the same for you with her.
2) Less hard work to reach orgasm. Death grip is a thing. People worry about coming too soon but for me it has always been the problem where I have to work too hard (it starts to become a painful chore to finish sometimes). If you are skilled at holding back you can keep the ‘at the gate’ feeling and have that most enjoyable shared coming together. Also foreplay is a lot more stimulating. With porn you are just training yourself to come quickly to something unreal.
3) Ready to go again! I prefer a banquet with many courses and so does she.
4) Prettier penis! Unforseen benefit but your chap will look so much better if you are not beating him up everyday. This has actually stop me relapsing a number of times more than anything else. MSM cream helps too.
Tips
- The possibility of real sex and intimacy is the biggest motivator. If you tell yourself you are going to be alone and unattractive then fapping seems like a logical way to pass the time and loneliness. Get out there, be confident and start making connections.
- Exercise. If you feel good in your body you’ll keep good habits.
- Meditation. Mental discipline and peace will help with everything in life.
- Juicing with green powers and oils! It has really improved my skin and complexion.
I’m 30.