PORN: How giving it up has changed my life. By Mark Zolo

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I remember the first time I typed in the word ‘sex’ into a search engine as a young boy—back in days of Windows 95, Ask Jeeves, and that irksome cacophony of a dial-up modem. I remember my eagerness as I sat there waiting, for hours on end sometimes, just for the chance to watch a low-quality three minute clip of naked strangers violating each other for the camera. I looked at the download bar like a heroin junkie burning his spoon. How wicked and wonderful.

Since the day of my first ejaculation, internet porn was ever-present in my sex life. It was the bow to my arrow.

We are Generation XXX. The startling truth is, the average 15-year-old boy today has seen more naked women than all of his ancestors for the last millennium  combined. We live in an age where watching internet porn is considered as normal as taking a piss, with  99.9% of guys my age regularly getting their fix of pixelated pussy. Hey, if everyone else is doing it, what’s the harm, right?

I used to think the same. Until I began to educate myself on the psychological consequences of such behaviour and take note of internet porn’s deleterious effects on my sex life.

To give an example, early last summer I was lying on the bed of a lingerie model I was seeing. Having just come from a shoot, all dolled up, she stripped down to her bra and panties and skipped in the bathroom to get ready for sex. Almost without hesitation, I opened up her computer and logged on the Pornhub to get myself turned on for her.

That’s when I knew I had a problem.

In the entire history of mankind, in the days prior to viral vagina, if that same situation had happened—with a horny model getting naked—any guy would have got rock hard, instantly.

But for Generation XXX—where men have literally seen thousands of silicon-stuffed sluts getting fucked in every which way—some chick in her underwear is just plain boring.

Guys, that’s not natural. Nor it is healthy or positive.

Then I watched this video.

The study shows it takes 3-6 months for men to feel the positive effects of giving up internet porn.

Well over three months ago, I stopped watching porn. I can honestly tell you I haven’t even had a cheeky peek since then. Any you know what? I feel great.

Sex is far more satisfying than it’s ever been before. I LOVE sex now. When I used to watch porn, having sex with a beautiful woman didn’t really satisfy  me as it should have.  Sometimes, I’d wish I could just click a button and change the scenery to mix it up. Even worse, when the girl wasn’t that sexy, I’d even close my eyes and think about my favourite porn just to bust a nut. Sad, but true. But not any more! Now, even sex with a 6 is exciting and satisfying! Naked flesh has once more become a novelty.

My libido has increased massively, too. In fact, my libido is almost too high. When I walk down the street and see a really nice ass, I can’t help but get hard. When I see a 9, I grind my teeth like an angry dog and think about kidnapping her and bringing her back to my man cave. And when I fuck, I fuck like a wild man. The women dig it.

The only disadvantage is now I cum way faster during sex. I used to be a marathon lover, but now I get so turned on seeing a naked woman I’m unable to hold back an orgasm for over ten minutes (without a condom). Unless she’s really worth a good dicking, I don’t bother trying to impress anyone. But on the plus side, I can go a couple of extra rounds—so it evens itself out.

For some reason, I also feel happier in life, too. I feel I have greater self-control. I feel I’m a better lover. I’m hungrier, more confident, more manly.

So my advice: Go for it!

Give it up and see the results for yourself.

If any of you have given it up, please share your experiences by commenting below

 

By Mark Zolo on October 19, 2012 (Link to article)

About Mark Zolo

Mark Zolo is a hardcore adventurer and travel writer. He has been to over 90 countries, including Antarctica and a few self proclaimed republics—and a few war zones dressed as a Mexican pirate.


An article Mark Zolo wrote 4 years later (November 2, 2016):

I tried VR porn, and we are F**KED.