I’m 19, have issues with PIED, HOCD, Porn induced fetishes, Depression, Anxiety and all that fun stuff. Before reaching 90 days now, my highest was 15 days.
Firstly, I have three practical pieces of advice for beating the addiction
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Try to avoid the room that you masturbate or watch porn in. I have been at uni for 86 if the 90 days of NoFap and I believe that has helped a lot as I have been in a different room to the one I have been masturbating in for past few years
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Learn as much about the addiction and NoFap as possible, the more you know about the negativity effects of porn, the more you will not want to relapse.
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limit or don’t drink alcohol and limit or don’t smoke marijuana, doing that seemed to slow the process. Also, get a good sleeping pattern, when I was in a good sleeping pattern was when i was recovering the quickest and if you go gym it also seems to help a bit as well.
Now here’s the benefits:
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Around Day 30 I would incredible rushes of energy
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More vivid dreams
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Around day 80-87, I got my original sexuality back and could get aroused just imagining a women. However that was reversed after a lot of drinking and a lack of sleep.
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My social skills have gotten much better
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My confidence has increased a lot but isn’t perfect
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You get a little bit stronger naturally after a couple weeks.
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Will power is a bit better
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More creative thinking and higher intelligence
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Morning wood started coming back around day 40/50 and has been on and off ever since. However I am getting morning wood more often
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There are so many little things I can’t put them all into one list but it is very worth it. I recommend everyone does NoFap.
The negatives:
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Drinking alcohol seemed to always set me back.
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As my PIED is severe I haven’t overcome it yet. But I have seen improvements.
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This may be unique to me but I got wet dreams over me watching porn a lot and sleep paralysis where I would just here a women moaning and couldn’t get out of it.
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Some days are better than others, when you have a day where you see little progress it can be discouraging but you gotta push through it.
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Although I am better at talking to women as friends, I haven’t had the NoFap attraction but I did used to see it if I stopped for about 4 days during the 7 years before I would eventually relapse.
Overall, all the issues at the start have decreased at least a little bit, with my anxiety being reduced being the one that has improved the most. If you have any question feel free to ask.
LINK – I reached 90 days for the first time in 7 years and here’s my summary.
By – SmokeyAwesome