I know some of you might have a harder time rebooting than I did but I want to share where I am:
BEFORE: I was obsessed with porn, both vanilla and sissy/tranny porn… I also had sexual-OCD (HOCD / TOCD) about the fantasies I had, fearing I was turning into something I wasn’t. I felt lethargic, low self-image, depressed and anxious. Years of escalation went from vanilla fantasies to gay porn to tranny porn to sissy stuff…
NOW: I started working out and I really enjoy it, I feel more masculine, i have more energy than ever before and socialize, I feel handsome, sissy fantasies are down significantly (sometime they occur but its fine) and best of all… my boners to girls are back and they are great! I can get hard thinking about sex with women… heck, I just get hard thinking about talking to a girl now…
My conclusion: NoFap helps if you feel you are losing yourself, your sexuality and feel anxious about these fantasies… i am okay if they occasionally pop up but i notice that i feel more and more like i did in my teens but a more confident version of that… i feel more like my true self!
However, just because i feel way better sexually doesn’t mean i will let it control me anymore. I feel better on noFap and if the right partner comes along I can engage in sexual stuff.. but I’m quitting porn for good at least!
I’m not saying noFap might be THE solution but it helped me a lot! Plus I’ve been improving my life in many aspects so that I don’t escape in the world of porn / sex…
Another important thing is, if you feel bad about your life in any way, therapy helps! Talking to someone instead of suppressing the problem makes you less likely to end up in the world of porn..
I don’t know what path you want to take but whatever you choose, do it for the right reasons!
LINK – 90 Days of noFap and i feel great… my report…
by Zamyou
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