*English is not my main language. Sorry for my grammar.
I guess I will start out with some history about myself. I discovered porn and masturbation since I was in 4th grade. However, throughout my life I only watched and masturbated to porn every 3-4 days or so. More like intermittent consumption. I was a late bloomer when it comes to real life sex and just didn’t have that much experience.
Fast forward to April 2018, I had an opportunity to have sex with a 9/10 girl, 21, tall, good looking, blonde hair, blue eye, literally every man’s dream. Long story short, I couldn’t cum from BJ (top notch skill too) and got soft as soon as I put on a condom (tried 2 times). I could get up with BJ decently but as soon as the stimulation stopped… I went soft within 30 sec.
She got very self-conscious and ghosted me. She told me she felt ugly and maybe that’s why I wasn’t getting up. But this was far from the truth….I was so depressed after as I never thought I would hurt a woman at this level. It was never my intention. I lost every ounce of my confidence (I would say I am a decent looking and tall athletic muscular guy, in my 20s, but also an introvert). I wasn’t able to work out and eat much because it was getting in my head constantly it was driving me crazy. I self blamed a lot and lost all my energy. At one point I thought I needed a psychiatrist, it was so bad.
One week after the incident I decided to look up the problem and found nofap. I knew I was suffering from PIED (cum less than 20 sec with porn easy) so I immediately cut off all porn and masturbation. Yet, I relapsed at day 30. I learned my mistake, restarted, flatlined, and next thing you know…100 days, relapsed. Then I got hit with Chaser effect and had 15-30 day streaks. Despite that, I felt my erection was stronger than ever before, morning woods were back…It’s time to test myself.
Yesterday I had an opportunity to have sex again with a very pretty woman. *Trigger warning: First round- 100% erection intense orgasm from a BJ within 5 mins. Second round- 85% erection as I was drained, but still had a successful condom intercourse with an O, little quicker than I wanted but still it wasn’t bad.
PIED disappeared!! I am so happy!!
Guys trust me sex/intimacy is 101% better than porn. It’s a completely different kind of experience. After this successful experience, I am even more determined to stop watching porn forever because I enjoy good sex and intimacy. I still have rooms to improve and I am looking forward to have even better intimacy. Stop fucking your screen and actually have interactions as well as building chemistry with real people.
**Virgins listen to me; do not take PIED as a joke. I took nofap as a joke years ago and thought that was some kind of a stupid game. Karma was a bitch to me. Don’t ruin your potential first experience because watching porn WILL lead you to that path (PIED).
LINK – Semi PIED CURED!! First Successful Sex Since April
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