Without support, recovering from a porn addiction is very tough to do on your own, or solely with a partner who is (understandably) feeling resentful. Said one forum member:
I’ve had good experiences with my local Sex Addicts Anonymous meetings (http://saa-recovery.org/), and the meetings will help you connect with others, and also heal shame that you feel about yourself. Opening up to a group of non-judging folks is incredibly healing, and I highly recommend you check out wherever you live. There are also telephone meetings which are great, and allow you to connect with people all over the world. I’m going to join one of these myself.
A support group is a great way to form close, sincere friendships. Recovering users benefit enormously from exchanging tips and support with others. Many of the following sites have forums, meetings and recovery programs. This new website has a great listing of resources.
Note: If you seek help from a therapist or doctor, you may want to educate him/her first about some of the symptoms heavy porn users are reporting.
Non-English resources (none are affiliated with YBOP; some may be commercial)
- [German] Pornosucht Besiegen
- Arabic video
- Czech site
- Spanish video
- Spanish site
- [Polish] www.seksoholizm.com
Get an App:
- NoFap Emergency App
- Cold Turkey Blocker – (blog post with pros & cons of different free website blockers)
- r/TRIBE
- Remojo
Non 12-Step Forums:
- Reboot Nation – Has its own forum. Start your own recovery journal, try a “classic” reboot, post, ask questions, share, get support and help raise awareness of porn-related problems
- NoFap.com – It has its own forum and is synced up with its Reddit-hosted community website. Find an accountability partner on NoFap. Accountability Partners are pairs or groups who hold each other accountable while quitting porn. Create a journal thread to document your progress. Strictly moderated to prevent pornography from being posted.
- Your Brain Rebalanced – One of the earliest forums for porn recovery, PIED, morphing porn tastes. Start your own recovery journal.
- NoFap subreddit – Very active forum on reddit.
- PornFree subreddit – Community to help those with porn addiction.
- Porn Addiction subreddit – Community to help those with porn addiction.
- NoFap Christians subreddit – Forum on reddit.
- MuslimNoFap – Forum on reddit.
- r/TGandSissyRecovery – Reddit support group for people struggling with porn-related feminization fetishes.
- Daily Strength: Sex/Pornography Addiction Support Group – Active forum for sex/porn addicts and their partners.
- Omega Man’s Resources – List of resources from member of YBR
- www.porno-sucht.com – largest German-speaking online resource
- Italian recovery forum – Similar to RebootNation
- Find out if porn has taken over your life – take the porn addiction test.
Teens (and parents)
- NoFap Teen subreddit – Forum on reddit for teens
- Fortify – All posts are moderated
- Youth Wellbeing Project – Provides holistic relationships & sexuality education to prevent sexual harms, enhance children and young people’s relationships, and build resilience to porn culture.
- Culture Reframed – Building resilience and resistance to hypersexualized media & porn
- WiredHuman – Empowering youth to combat digital exploitation and build value-driven media habits
Women struggling with their own porn use
- PornFree Women – For women
- Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous has a women’s phone group
- Sex Addicts Anonymous has a women’s page
- Women’s Sex/Love Addiction Drop-In Discussion Group: Tuesdays @ 6:00 pm – 7:00 pm PDT
Support from Non 12-Step Organizations, Sites & Programs:
- PornHelp.org – Help people take the first step in quitting porn
- PMO Flatline – This is a commercial site, but it has lots of free content
- Addicted to Internet Pornography – Noah Church (provides coaching, especially for PIED)
- Easy Peasy Method: “Free: painlessly quit porn immediately, without willpower or any sense of deprivation or sacrifice” (based on Alan Carr’s work on quitting smoking). Can’t concentrate? Here’s an audio version. Two threads about this book: YBR and RBN. Some people find this method helpful. For others it is not the promised panacea.
- PornFree Radio – by Matt Dobschuetz
- Culture Reframed parents program – “help young people thrive despite hypersexualized culture”
- Mark Queppet: – Coach, leader of nofap academy. Visit his Vlog.
- Recovery Nation – Free program (workshops, articles,resources, coaching)
- The Light Project – New Zealand (lists many resources)
- Porn Free Power – Free guide packed with strategies and exercises
- Love you, hate the porn – Blog, good info for couples
- Healthysex.com – Professional services, articles. Authors of “The Porn Trap”
- The Sex God Project – Started by a Gay man
- Building the New – Porn addiction recovery through Mindfulness & Compassion
- The Fortify Program – Recovery program (free to those under 21)
- Inner Gold – blog, videos, counseling, and addiction programs.
- Healthystrokes: traumatic masturbation syndrome – If you are a face down (prone) masturbator, you need to follow this link
- www.sexaddictionhelp.co.uk – Free self-help recovery resource
- New York Sexual Addiction Center – Offers group therapy for porn addicts, as well as individual counseling
- Wiki on porn recovery – Good tips on avoiding porn and porn recovery.
- Sexual Recovery Institute – Professional services, workshops, articles.
- Pathways Institute for Impulse Control – Professional services, articles
- Rational Recovery – All addictions.
- SMART Recovery® – All addictions. Active forum, online meetings, lots of resources.
- PathForMen.com – Path for Men has specialized, empathetic, and compassionate therapy and online courses to overcome unwanted sexual behaviors and repair damaged relationships
Support from 12-Step Based Groups:
Sex and Porn Addicts Anonymous – If you want to watch porn or act out sexually, that’s your business. If you want to stop, we can help.
Porn Addicts Anonymous – all genders welcome, good for those whose only issue is porn
- Pornography Addicts Anonymous.org – A 12-step fellowship for those seeking recovery from an addiction to pornography
- Sexual Addicts Anonymous
- Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous
- “SLAA offers both on-line and phone meetings. My clients will use the phone meetings when they are on the road. The phone meetings are especially useful for those people who have limited access to computers or issues with on-line pornography and chatting. http://www.slaafws.org/
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- “SLAA offers both on-line and phone meetings. My clients will use the phone meetings when they are on the road. The phone meetings are especially useful for those people who have limited access to computers or issues with on-line pornography and chatting. http://www.slaafws.org/
- Sexual Compulsives Anonymous
- Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous Online Group – Online meetings
Support For the Partners of Addicts:
- APSATS | The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists – Find a specialist
- BloomForWomen.com – Bloom for Women is a Betrayal Trauma Recovery Tool for Women
- Katie Korzen Coaching – Coaching resource for partners
- Reddit community – Love After Porn – Resource for partners
- Betrayal Trauma Recovery – A non-profit that helps women navigate their husband, ex-husband or boyfriend’s pornography / sexual addiction and related behaviors. It helps to cope with lies, infidelity, gaslighting, emotional abuse, and narcissism
- Hope & Healing Forum/blog – Information and community for women affected by the sexual addiction of a loved one
- Healthysex.com – Promoting Healthy Sex and Intimacy
- PoSARC – Partners of Sex Addicts Resource Center
- COSA – This is the counterpart to Sex Addicts Anonymous.
- Pathways Institute for Impulse Control
- S-Anon
- Books for partners – and healing couples:
- Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts
- Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of…
- Facing Heartbreak: Steps to Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts
- Surviving Disclosure:: A Partner’s Guide for Healing the Betrayal of Intimate…
- Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal
- Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity
- Not “Just Friends”: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity…
- Facing the Shadow [3rd Edition]: Starting Sexual and Relationship Recovery
Books:
- Your Brain on Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction (2nd edition, 2017)
- Wack: Addicted to Internet Porn by Noah B.E. Church
- Man, Interrupted: Why Young Men are Struggling & What We Can Do About It by Philip Zimbardo & Nikita D. Coulombe
- The Porn Trap, by Wendy & Larry Maltz
- Understanding and Treating Sex Addiction, by Paula Hall
- Breaking the Cycle: Free Yourself from Sex Addiction, Porn Obsession, and Shame, by George Collins
- The Brain That Changes Itself, by Norman Doidge
- Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity, by Mark Chamberlain & Geoff Steurer
- No More Mr. Nice Guy!, by Robert A Glover
- Porned Out: erectile dysfunction, depression, and 7 more (selfish) reasons to quit porn, by Brian McDougal
- “You Are Not Your Brain”, by Jeffrey Schwartz, a medical doctor who treats OCD
- You Are Not Broken: A Holistic Guide for Men and Women to Heal the Pathways of Sexual Dysfunction and Restore Relational Harmony Together, by Brooke Hazen (BrookeHazen.com)
- The Slight Edge: Turning Simple Disciplines into Massive Success and Happiness